How a dog with a terminal illness can teach us to reach for the stars
October 18th, 2010 | Published in Uncategorized
The first rule of owning your own business is getting and retaining clients or customers. This week I took on a client that I knew I would never see again.
Meet Raider, an 8 year old Lab/Border Collie Mix with Stage 4 Lymphoma . He was only expected to live for 6-8 weeks when diagnosed and it’s been 2 1/2 months. The owners consider this a miracle and are showering him with love until he passes.
Due to his Lymph nodes being swollen, his eyes and back side are very red and bulgy and he’s lost 50 pounds in the last 2 months. He lives on 5 acres and is used to controlling the wildlife on his property. He can still do all that, but at a much slower pace.
Barring his appearance, you’d never know that he has a terminal illness. He has a big appetite, still wags his tail all the time and follows me around the house. He was even trying to get “frisky” with Libby when she came to stay with us.
What really impresses me are the owners two young children and how they accept his illness with grace and love him unconditionally.
Fortunately for Raider, he doesn’t know that the end is near. Some people may debate that dogs know when their time is coming and I do believe that, but at this stage, I don’t think he’s there yet.
Humans are a very different story. If we find ourselves in the unfortunate situation to be diagnosed with a terminal illness, we are face with having to deal with that reality and what it would mean to our lives and how we conduct ourselves.
SHOWTIME has a new series called, “The Big C” starring Laura Linney and Oliver Platt in which she is a school teacher diagnosed with terminal Melanoma. She’s healthy now, but knows that she doesn’t have long on this Earth. So, she decides not to tell her family and lives life completely on her terms and does whatever she wants. She kicks her needy husband out of the house and lives life to the fullest. She does some crazy stuff, but it’s the subtleties of her life that take on new meaning such as the flowers in her garden and spending time with her cranky teenage son. She is joyous and willing to try new things that she dared not do before. Wouldn’t it be great if we can live that all the time?
Why do we wait until something like a terminal illness wakes us up to live our lives the way we want to? It’s like the Kris Allen’s song, “Live like you’re dying”. “We only got 86,400 seconds in a day to turn it all around or we throw it all away”.
I believe that we are here to live our truth and to achieve pure joy and love and live in alignment with that truth. There are many paths to reach this place, but they all are going to the same destination – Spirit, God, Source, Nirvana, Infinite Intelligence, The Universe and for you Star Wars fans, The Force. Whatever you call it, to reach this destination you must live in accordance with your true and higher self – your divine self.
Think about it, are you living in alignment with your true self??
Are you with the person you truly want to be with?
Are you in the profession or job that you can’t wait to get up for everyday?
Do you treat people with kindness and can you forgive them?
Do you sweat the small stuff?
Do you argue when it just doesn’t matter?
Do you love your friends and family deeply and openly?
Have you put off someone or something waiting for the perfect time that never comes?
I’m still working on all this, but I know that the choices in front of me are limitless – we only have to make the decision to create our amazing life!
What’s the first thing you would do if you knew your time was limited??
















