Giving is a Selfish Act and Why We Should Pay it Forward
May 12th, 2010 | Published in Helping Pets
You know that saying by St. Francis of Assisi, “For it is in the giving that we receive”. Of course I know what that means on the surface, but I never really felt it in my heart until I saw an episode of “Undercover Boss”. The premise of the show is the CEO of a big corporation goes undercover and takes a job with the everyday people working in the trenches. While doing this, he gets to know them and what their dreams are and their ideas to make the company and their jobs better.
In the end, he reveals himself to the employees. There was one man that had always wanted to go to a certain school (I can’t exactly remember the school), but was too financially strapped to ever imagine this could come true. The CEO surprised him with a leave of absence and a full ride to that school. Not only that, his job would be waiting for him when he returned. The look of pure gratitude, happiness and relief brought me to tears in a wonderful, happy way. It was as if he was drowning and was thrown a lifesaver.
In that moment, I really grasped what St. Francis was saying to us. That awesome feeling of bringing so much joy to another human being felt so good that it’s almost like a selfish act.
Why am I telling you this story? Because I want to encourage you to pay it forward to our animals in need. Helping those that have no voice, the beaten, the battered and the neglected.
My own dream for the future is to create a foundation to raise funds for animal shelters and rescues. Right now a portion of the proceeds from Waggy’s online store will go to this effort.
If you feel deeply about animals, here’s how you can help:
Volunteer your time to an animal organization that you feel strongly about. Get involved and help with fundraising efforts, walk dogs, clean out kennels – anything that helps out their cause.
Connect on Facebook and other social media outlets. There are thousands of people working night and day to help out rescue animals. Google for media sites that are specifically geared toward animals.
Get involved in animal advocacy or legislation. Get people to sign petitions offline and online, campaign for causes, make phone calls. If you pick a cause that you really feel strong about, it will be easy to explain your side to people and get them to join your cause.
Start your own non-profit. 2 Hands 4 Paws (her website was hacked, so this URL is from Volunteer Match) was started by Maureen Gendron in Rhode Island to give temporary housing to pets that have been affected by the housing crisis. She is looking for families to house these pets while their owners get back on their feet and find a permanent home. In my pet sitting business, I get many calls asking for this very thing, but we’re not set up to do that and it would cost the owner too much. However, I’d love to start something like 2 Hands 4 Paws.
Donate your money. If times doesn’t allow you to volunteer for the organization of your choice or cause, I’m sure they will gladly accept your money.
Become a pet sitter. Of course this isn’t like volunteering for a shelter, but you are helping pets feel safe, secure and loved while their owners are away. You can’t imagine how much unconditional love you get sitting dogs and cats. Basically, that’s my selfish pleasure.
If you’re looking for something more globally, check out Charity Navigator to find just the right cause that’s dear to your heart.
You’ll never get more as when you give of your heart.
Chris L Wagner
From One Pet Lover to Another





